10 tips for success categorised into 3 VERY SIMPLE areas TO BEING SUCCESSFUL

1️⃣ HACHANA – SET UP (PREPARATION)

Before taking action, set yourself up for success by preparing mentally, emotionally, and practically.

Key Steps:

  • Clarify Your Why 🔥
    • A strong reason fuels commitment. Ask yourself: Why does this goal matter to me? The deeper your motivation, the easier it is to stay on track.
    • Example: If your goal is to get fit, is it to feel healthier, have more energy, or be a good role model for your kids?
  • Get Clear on How & Who You Need to Be 🧭
    • What skills, habits, and mindset do you need? What kind of person achieves this goal?
    • Example: If you want to become a great public speaker, you need confidence, preparation, and practice.
  • Pray for Help 🙏
    • Daven for clarity, strength, and success. Recognize that Hashem is part of the process.
  • Make It Specific & Measurable 📏
    • Vague goals don’t work. Define your goal in specific, trackable terms (e.g., “I will exercise 3 times a week”).
    • Example: Instead of “I want to write a book,” say, “I will write 500 words a day.”
  • Set Up for Ease & Success 🏗
    • Make it ridiculously easy to start. Remove obstacles, prepare tools, and design your environment for success.
    • Example: If you want to eat healthier, prep healthy meals in advance and remove junk food from your house.
  • Visualize & Feel Success Daily 🏆
    • Imagine yourself achieving your goal. Feel the emotions of success—joy, confidence, excitement.
    • Example: If you want to start a business, picture yourself signing your first big client.
  • Align Your Identity with Success 🎯
    • Instead of just “I want to do this,” shift to “I am the kind of person who does this.” When it’s part of your identity, it becomes natural.
    • Example: Instead of “I want to run a marathon,” say, “I am a runner.”
  • Constant Learning 📖
    • Study your goal deeply. Read books, listen to audiobooks, take courses, and talk to people who have succeeded in this area.
    • Example: If you want to invest in real estate, read books by successful investors, listen to real estate podcasts, and seek mentorship.

2️⃣ ACTION – SMALL CONSISTENT STEPS

Success comes from daily, consistent effort. Focus on creating a sustainable system rather than relying on motivation.

Key Steps:

  • Start Small, Win Big 🎯
    • Break big goals into small, manageable steps. Small wins create momentum and build confidence.
    • Example: If you want to wake up earlier, start by waking up 10 minutes earlier each day rather than making a drastic change overnight.
  • Focus on Systems, Not Just Goals 🔄
    • “You don’t rise to the level of your goals; you fall to the level of your systems.” Design habits that make success inevitable.
    • Example: If you want to write a book, create a daily writing habit rather than just aiming to finish a book.
  • Use Structure, Not Just Willpower 🗓
    • Set reminders, schedule time, and use habit-tracking tools to stay on track.
    • Example: If you want to exercise regularly, put workout sessions in your calendar like important meetings.
  • Take Daily Action 🚶‍♂️
    • Do something toward your goal every single day, even if it’s small.
    • Example: If you want to improve your Hebrew, practice 5 minutes a day instead of waiting for long study sessions.
  • Expect Challenges & Plan for Them 🚧
    • There will be obstacles. Anticipate them and have a plan. (e.g., Too tired? Have a 10-minute backup plan.)
    • Example: If you know you struggle with distractions, set up a dedicated workspace free of interruptions.
  • Surround Yourself with the Right Energy ⚡
    • Spend time with people who uplift and encourage you. Avoid negativity that drains your motivation.
    • Example: If you want to get fit, join a fitness group where people support each other.
  • Keep a Growth Mindset 🌱
    • Setbacks aren’t failures; they’re feedback. If you fall off track, analyze what went wrong, adjust, and keep going.
    • Example: If you miss a workout, don’t quit—adjust your schedule and keep going.

3️⃣ REVIEW – ANALYZE & IMPROVE

Growth comes from reflection and adjustment. Track progress, get support, and tweak your approach as needed.

Key Steps:

  • Track Progress & Celebrate Wins 🎉
    • Keep a log of what’s working. Reward small milestones to stay motivated.
    • Example: If you’re learning a new language, track how many new words you learn each week.
  • Get Support & Accountability 🤝
    • Share your goals with a friend or mentor. Talking things out helps with clarity and motivation.
    • Example: If you’re working on a business, meet weekly with a mentor or mastermind group.
  • Accept Failure as Part of Success 📈
    • Failure isn’t the opposite of success—it’s part of the process. Learn, adjust, and keep going.
    • Example: If a diet doesn’t work for you, tweak it instead of giving up completely.
  • Regularly Analyze & Tweak 🔍
    • Ask yourself:
    • What’s working? What’s not?
    • What needs adjusting?
    • How can I make this easier or more effective?
    • Example: If you’re not making progress in fitness, analyze if your workouts are too intense or not challenging enough.
  • Stay Inspired 📚
    • Read success stories, listen to motivating podcasts, and surround yourself with inspiration.
    • Example: If you’re starting a business, read about entrepreneurs who overcame obstacles.
  • Commit for the Long Haul 🏋️‍♂️
    • Success isn’t about perfection—it’s about persistence. Keep going even when it’s tough.
    • Example: If you want to learn an instrument, commit to practicing even on days you don’t feel like it.

🚀 FINAL THOUGHT

Success isn’t just about setting goals—it’s about making them part of who you are. Start with small, consistent actions, review regularly, and never be afraid to adjust and improve. Which step will you start with today? 😊

3 VERY SIMPLE STEPS TO BEING SUCCESSFUL

SET UP – ACTION – REVIEW (BREAK THESE UP)

 

SPLIT EVERYTHING INTO THESE 3 STEPS – HACHANA (SET UP) – INCLUDING YOUR WHY, HOW, PRAYER, – THEN WAHT DO SPLIT INTO SMALL STEPS – THEN ANALYSE AND GET SUPPORT (TRACK IF CAN)

Very important to analyse how doing regularly – so 1- set self up, get clear, 2, do, be positive, know will fail, don’t be afraid of failure, you fail 100% OF SHOTS never take, be kind and supportive – DO SMALL STEPS – FOCUS ON GETTING THE SYSTEM / HABIT  3. analyse, use a friend to talk out with and brainstorm

 

 

 

 

 

Keep very simple – maybe just have 3 or 4 tips

1. Go over what should have from goal exercise eg – clear vision – steps etc – track if can

2. Go over importnace of personal support (exercie 4)

3. Go over failure is part of success – accept it – its a work in progress – dont give up – just work out what went wrong and tweek – this why helpful to have support as diffuclt to do on own

4. Pray – pray – pray

5. Make it easy – set it up so so easy (put this in actual exercise – is a good thing)

6. focus on habit / syetm – not goal – you fall to the level of your systems

 

 

 

 

1️⃣ Clarify Your Why 🔥

  • A strong reason fuels commitment. Ask yourself: Why does this goal matter to me? The deeper your motivation, the easier it is to stay on track.

2️⃣ Start Small, Win Big 🎯

  • Break big goals into manageable steps. Small wins create momentum, making success feel achievable and sustainable.

3️⃣ Make It Specific & Measurable 📏

  • “I want to be healthier” is vague. “I will exercise 3 times a week” is clear. Define your goal in specific, trackable terms to stay focused.

4️⃣ Use a System, Not Just Willpower 🗓

  • Set reminders, schedule time in your calendar, or use habit-tracking apps. Structure beats motivation when it comes to long-term success.

5️⃣ Create Accountability & Support 🤝

  • Tell someone about your goal or join a group. Having people check in on your progress keeps you committed and makes quitting harder. Surround yourself with people who uplift and encourage you.

6️⃣ Visualize & Feel Success Daily 🏆

  • Close your eyes and imagine yourself achieving your goal. Feel the joy, confidence, and excitement as if you’ve already succeeded. The more real it feels, the more your brain is wired to make it happen.

7️⃣ Fill Yourself with Success Feelings 💖

  • Before taking action, fill yourself with emotions of success—pride, excitement, motivation. These feelings fuel action and create momentum.

8️⃣ Expect Challenges & Plan for Them 🚧

  • There will be obstacles. Anticipate them and have a plan. Too tired to exercise? Have a 10-minute backup workout ready. Too busy? Schedule shorter sessions.

9️⃣ Track Progress & Celebrate Wins 🎉

  • Keeping track of what you’ve accomplished reinforces success. Reward yourself for milestones—even small ones—to keep momentum strong.

🔟 Reinforce Progress with Positive Reinforcement 🌟

  • Every time you complete a step, tell yourself you’re doing great. Positivity makes it easier to stick with habits and push forward.

1️⃣1️⃣ Keep a Growth Mindset 🌱

  • Setbacks aren’t failures; they’re feedback. If you fall off track, analyze what went wrong, adjust, and keep going. Progress, not perfection!

1️⃣2️⃣ Stay Inspired 📚

  • Read success stories, listen to motivating podcasts, or follow people who inspire you. Constant exposure to motivation keeps you moving forward.

1️⃣3️⃣ Surround Yourself with the Right Energy ⚡

  • Who you spend time with impacts your mindset. Be around people who push you forward, not hold you back.

1️⃣4️⃣ Commit for the Long Haul 🏋️‍♂️

  • Real success is about consistency, not intensity. Keep going even when it’s tough. You don’t have to be perfect—just persistent!

1️⃣5️⃣ Align Your Identity with Success 🎯

  • Instead of just having a goal, see yourself as the type of person who naturally does it. Not “I want to exercise,” but “I am a person who values health.” When it’s part of your identity, it becomes effortless.

🚀 Success isn’t just about setting goals—it’s about making them part of who you are. Which tip will you start with today? 😊